22 Sep Why It’s So Hard To Make Goals A Reality
Why is it dang so hard to bring your “goals” into fruition?
I am hoping this will help you! I’ve seen and shifted over and over again with clients…
DECISION. You may not have fully DECIDED it’s happening. You may be trying it on, thinking about it, wishing for it, dreaming about it, but DECIDING means it’s happening and you are level 10 committed.
You aren’t clear on WHY you want what you want. Getting clear on that driving core motivator as to why you want the goal gives you CLARITY and clarity is what helps you focus on creating it and making it a reality. Knowing your why outsmarts distractions and willpower.
False assumed truths , the wrong beliefs and especially FEAR. It’s real. It holds us back. It’s in the way. It keeps us from getting hurt, it protects us from disappointment, it keeps us “SAFE” but it does not help us live the creative, fun, expanded life we WANT. This is especially true when it is TRULY YOUR GIFT AND CALLING. Yup. When we are truly onto our GIFTS and strengths , the risk of failure feels PERSONAL. When it is just a skill, or something you’ve learned or studied, the risk of failure is not personal. It doesn’t attack YOU as a person. Read that again. When you feel the fear you are headed in the right direction!
VISION: you haven’t fully thought through what it is you WANT and what that will look, feel and smell like when you get there! It’s like getting in a car and driving without knowing the destination! Who knows where you will end up.
You are loan wolfing it. Stop! You are making it so much harder on yourself. Find that mentor, that coach, that person who has accomplished what you want and hire them, learn from them, study them and follow a METHOD. Dang it makes things so much easier…